Hollyhand House

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Day 1

   Our first day with Miss Ava Kate was wonderful!  Our immediate families were there that morning to welcome her to the world and then everyone left and Riley and I got to rest and relax and just enjoy our new bundle of joy!  That evening we had several more visitors.  I tried to take pictures of those that came but I got a little sidetracked.
     Unlike most newborns, Ava Kate was very alert her first day and wanted to nurse often...which she made up for the lack of sleep the next few days.
     I forgot to mention in the last post that Ava Kate has dark hair and blue eyes. 
Mom and Dad brought Anna Riley back to the hospital that afternoon so we could spend a little more time with both girls!



PawPaw and Granna

Aunt Amanda
(we can't wait to meet James Duncan in December!)

Papa Doug


Lily Grace & Peyton


Uncle Brian
'Aunt' Fran

Monday, October 10, 2011

Welcome to the world Ava Kate

Ava Kate Hollyhand
October 6, 2011
8:25 am8lbs. 3oz.
20 in. long
We are overjoyed to welcome our new baby girl!!  Ava Kate arrived at 8:25 on Thursday morning.  We are SO in love with this baby girl and feeling so blessed with our family of four!
For my memory, I want to write down the events of Ava Kate's birthday.

Riley and I arrived at the hospital around 4:45 on Thursday morning.  I probably got a few hours of sleep the night before.  I was excited, nervous and anxious.  I laid awake just thinking about what she would look like, how Anna Riley would react and prayed that she was healthy and things went smoothly.  My parents had stayed at our house so that they would be there with Anna Riley when we left and they could bring her to the hospital closer to time. When we got there, they started my iv and began getting me prepped for surgery.

We were fortunate enough to have Kim Lawson come take pictures of our special day so many of these are courtesy of her.



The c-section was scheduled to start at 7a.m. so Mom and Dad brought Anna Riley around that time so they would be there when she was born.    Unfortunately, the surgery was delayed until 8 a.m. but it gave me some time to be with Anna Riley before going back. 

They took us back close to 8 and Riley got his outfit to put on and they took me back to get my spinal.  The spinal was so much better than the epidural I had last time.  I did start feelin nauseous when they laid me down after giving the spinal.  I wasn't surprised because I got very sick with Anna Riley.  They gave me medicine and I felt much better!  When everything was ready, Riley came in and everything got started.  Everything was really calm and went so smoothly.  I felt great at this point but I did cry through most of the surgery...happy tears of course.  It didn't take long at all and Dr. Poist said he was about to get her out.  Much to our surprise, miss Ava Kate had turned at some point and was breech!  That explains why I always felt what I thought was her bottom sticking out on my left side...it was her head! Good thinng we had already planned on a c-section!!  He pulled her out and she was completly covered in vernix (the white cheesy stuff) so it was hard to tell much about her.  They cleaned her up real quick and weighed her and Riley brought her to me.  We said immediatley that she looked like her big sister!  


She weighed 8lbs 3oz and was 20 inches long which was very close to Anna Riley's size (8lbs and 20 3/4 in.)


Riley, then took her to meet the family and they finished working on me for the next 20 minutes.

Anna Riley had fun while waiting for little sister.  She spent her time being pushed on the iv pump!!


Anna Riley finally meeting her little sister for the first time!!

Riley got to take everyone back one at a time to get a closer look at Ava Kate while she was in the nursery.


I went back to recovery and waited until they were finished with her in the nursery.  Anna Riley got to come sit with me and keep me company.


After a few mintues, Riley brought Ava Kate to me!  I just couldn't believe I was finally holding her in my arms...such a special moment!


Anna Riley wasn't sure what to think about this new addition! 


I nursed Ava Kate and then they took me back to the room.

Everything with this birth went SO smooth and I was really able to enjoy every second of it!  I was amazed at how much better I felt during and after this time section compared to last.  I am so thankful for such a healthy baby girl!  God has truly blessed me and my family!!!

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

20 months

Anna Riley is now 20 months old!  Can't believe she will be 2 in just four short months!!
Here is what she is doing at 20 months:

-She wears mostly 24 month/2t clothes but can still wear 18 month in dresses.  She is in a size 5 diaper.
-We decided to drop her morning nap and move her afternoon nap up a little.  Sometimes, I feel she still needs that rest time, but she always falls asleep and then she doesn't take a good afternoon nap and I would much rather an afternoon nap than morning. 
-So, in trying to adjust to just one nap, she has been more whiny than usual and she is throwing quite a few tantrums.  I know some of this is due to teeth that have and are coming in and not feeling, changes that are slowly taking place, but mainly just the "terrible twos!"

-She has gotten really good at saying "NO!"  Sometimes this is to tell us she doesn't want something but many times it is just being definant!
-Even though she has had a few behavior issues this month, she can still be the sweetest thing!  She really loves to cuddle and she will say "cuddle, cuddle, cuddle" real fast.  She is always laying on us or giving us hugs and kisses. 
-When she hugs you she says "awww" and sometimes when you ask for a hug, you might just get the "aww" with no hug at all! Haha
-When her feelings are hurt, she curls her bottom lip and her eyes get big.

-Her vocabulary is getting bigger and bigger everyday.  She is constantly saying or doing something new. She is now saying more phrases.  Her favorite phrases right now are  "I get it!"  or "There ya go"
-Many times when we ask her a question she will say "yeah"...much better than no all the time.  The other night I said "You know Mommy loves you so much" and she said "I know!"  :)
-She loves animals and can name most of them and their sound.  Barn animals are still here favorites.

-We are still working on people's names.  We work on this the most and I think she is just stubborn and will say them when she wants.  She does say Mama but she started calling me Mommy more, Daddy, PawPaw (my dad), Granna (She is stubborn with this one but she has said it a few times), PopPop (Rileys dad...who is really Papa Doug), MiMi (Rileys grandmother).  We are working on aunts and uncles and others but she says the ones she wants to say.


-She has started saying "WOW" or "cool" a lot.  When she says wow, she really drags it out...its so cute!
-She can count to 6 (on a good day) by herself.  She holds out her fingers and tries to count them.  Seven really throws her off but she will say 8,9, 10 and clap!  But, if she is counting objects, she will just say "pive, six, pive, six"
-She LOVES the song "wheels on the bus."  I often hear her "singing" the tune and then doing the motions.  She knows all the motions now and her favorite is that the babies go "wah, wah, wah"
-She likes to "help" me clean.
-Sometimes when she is really tired, she will point to her room and say "night, night"
-She still loves books and is now really intersted in her puzzles.

-Mickey Mouse is still a favorite and she really has started liking Pete.  She talks about him when the show isn't even on.  One day, a neighbor of ours was running while we were outside and I ask her if she knew who that was and she said "Pete"...its funny because he isn't even a main character on the show.
-She crosses her pointer and middle finger all the time.  I think she just realized she could do that.
-She is obsessed with the games on the iphone and ipad.  I have to admit, she is pretty good at them and knows how to use them probably better than many adults I know!  But, it gets frustrating when we are using them and she tries to get them from us.  She will now say "Peas" but she thinks because she says that, she can have it! 

-She is obsessed with shoes.  She wakes up in the morning wanting to pick out a pair of shoes in her closet.  She also loves to take our shoes off and put them on her or on someone else. 
-She really likes to watch me put my make-up on.  Isn't it funny how little girls already love this stuff?!
- She wants to be "out-tide" all the time!!! 
-She is more finally getting more intersted in coloring and painting and she played with playdough for the first time the other day.
-She is going to be a BIG sister tomorrow! 

39 weeks


Well tomorrow is the big day!!  I can't believe it is already here.  I just got home from the pre-admission testing, so we are ready to go!  My parents are coming tonight so they can stay with Anna Riley in the morning and bring her to the hospital.  They are going to keep her tonight so Riley and I can go out to eat by ourselves.  :)  Please say a prayer for us for a safe delivery and healthy baby...and that I can get some sleep tonight!!

Symptoms:
I honestly feel so good for it to be the end!  I mainly just have bad back pain in the evenings and at night.  A hot shower really seems to help. 

Weight Gain:
28lbs.  I didn't keep up with everything as well last time so I am not for sure the exact amount I gained, but it was at least 40..so I did a little better in that department this go around.

Sleep:
Sleep has been pretty good.  Anna Riley hasn't slept too well this week because of her cold but it hasn't been too bad.  Last night, it took me forever to go to sleep...I couldn't stop thinking about everything! So I don't imagine I will sleep well tonight either and I have to get up at 4am.

Movement:
It has slowed down but I often can feel her bottom and she presses her feet out a lot...to the point where I could probably almost count toes!  She has had the hiccups a few times also.

The top picture is 39 weeks with Anna Riley and the bottom is today.  I feel like my stomach is probably just as big but I didn't gain as much in my face this time.


Sunday, October 2, 2011

Our last weekend...

   This was our last weekend as a family of 3!  We are so excited that our little family is expanding and soon we will have two precious girls.  But, there will be a lot of changes, especially for Anna Riley.  She is really too young to understand what is going on but I think she already senses that things are about to change a little.  This week has been pretty difficult with her.  She has been acting out a lot more and her the tantrums have been horrible and frequent.  I know that a part of this is due to the fact that two of her eye teeth finally popped through and I am pretty sure the other two are not far behind because they are look swollen and a part of it is just simply the terrible twos entering at full force.  But, I do think she senses change.  I have also been a little emotional thinking about the alone time I spend with AR coming to an end but I am overjoyed thinking about all the fun things that are to come with my two girls!!  Hopefully, adjustment will go smoothly for all of us! 
    We wanted to plan a few fun things to do with Anna Riley this weekend.  So, Friday, Riley took a long lunch and we went to the Barnyard and to Jalepenos for lunch.  I could tell a big change in her since we took her in April.  She loves animals and knows all their names now.  She was so excited and just ran from one animal to the next.  She was saying the sounds that all the animals say. She loved riding the pony and feeding the baby pig with the bottle.






Saturday, she woke up with a little cold. We took her to the Airport Park in Northport, so we could watch the small planes land and take off. Unfortunately, we didn't get to see too many and the wind was blowing too much to stay out there too long. I think most of the planes had probably made their way to Gainsville for the game. She did get to play on the playground for a little bit and then we headed to Chick-Fil-A to play for a while.







When we got home, we played in the yard with Maggie, one of our neighbors. 


These two are 4 months apart...I predict they will be getting in lots of trouble together when they start school!

They were having a yard sale and Maggie's two older siblings set up a Lemonade & Cookie stand that the young ones decided to take over!  When Anna Riley went down for a nap, I went for a much needed prenatal massage and pedicure...so relaxing!!  :)

Saturday night, we celebrated Granna's birthday and went to Cypress Inn to eat.  Anna Riley was still not feeling all that well and her feelings were on her shoulders so everyone pretty much took turns taking her to see the fish.  She was just pitiful and anytime anyone would say anything to her she would curl her bottom lip and start crying.  I had made dessert, so they came back to our house to eat dessert and so Mom could open her presents.  After all of that, it was game time!!

Today, we are just laying around.  We decided to stay home from church since AR didn't feel well and none of us really slept all that well. 

We had a wonderful weekend together and I can't believe that next weekend we will be a family of four!